Lover's Ritual Bundle

Lover's Ritual Guide

How to Use the Bear Blend Lovers Ritual Bundle

This ritual is not about doing things perfectly.

It is about being present.

Set aside an evening where phones are off, lights are low, and there is nowhere else to be. Lightly tidy your space, open a window if you can, and agree together on one simple intention before you begin: to slow down and share the moment fully.

Step 1: Prepare the Love Potion

(Best prepared a few days ahead, or the same day as a tea)

Blue Lotus and Damiana

There are two ways to work with these plants:

Option A: Ceremonial Infusion

Place the Blue Lotus and Damiana into a bottle of tequila or red wine and allow it to infuse for a few days. This slow extraction brings out the plants’ traditional heart-opening and relaxing qualities. When ready, sip gently and intentionally.

Option B: Shared Tea

Steep the Blue Lotus and Damiana together in hot water. Pour into two cups and drink slowly together, allowing the body and breath to soften.

This step sets the tone for the evening.

Step 2: Bathe in the Heart

Rose Petals

Fill a bath or bowl with warm water and gently add the rose petals. Sprinkle them slowly and with intention.

You may soak together, wash each other’s hands, or simply let the aroma fill the space. Rose has long been associated with tenderness, emotional openness, and heart-centered connection.

You also may want to save some for the sprinkling on the bed.

Step 3: Moon Connection

Moon Ceremonial Blend

Choose how you would like to work with the Moon blend:

• Brew it as a calming tea
• Smoke it slowly and intentionally

This blend is meant to ground the nervous system and invite intuition and quiet presence. Take turns preparing it for one another.

Step 4: Set the Space

Frankincense Rope Incense

Light the incense and allow the smoke to move through the room. Frankincense has been used ceremonially for thousands of years to cleanse space and signal the beginning of ritual.

Take a few shared breaths as it burns.

Step 5: Intention Setting

Shaman Rolliez

A little smoke. A little intention.

No words are required.

Step 6: Play and Ceremony

Kin Nik Nik Cherry Liquid Elixir

This part of the ritual invites playfulness and closeness.

Place a few drops on one another’s skin, taste it, and gently lick it away. Kin Nik Nik is edible, sensual, and traditionally used as a ceremonial blend to encourage connection and shared laughter.

Let curiosity guide this moment.

Amazon ChewChew gently to freshen the breath and bring awareness into the mouth and body. This step helps anchor attention in physical sensation and the present moment

Final Note

This ritual can be sensual, emotional, playful, quiet, or deeply grounding. There is no correct outcome or ending. Allow the plants to support the experience, and let presence do the rest.